Many years ago, the Israeli Bedouin expert Clinton Bailey told me a story about a Bedouin chief who discovered one day that his favorite turkey had been stolen. He called his sons together and told them: "Boys, we are in great danger now. My turkey's been stolen. Find my turkey." His boys just laughed and said, "Father, what do you need that turkey for?" and they ignored him.
A few weeks later the Bedouin chief's camel was stolen. His sons went to him and said, "Father, your camel has been stolen. What should we do?" And the chief answered, "Find my turkey."
A few weeks later the chief's horse was stolen, and again his sons asked what they should do. "Find my turkey," the chief said.
Finally, a few weeks later his daughter was abducted, at which point he gathered his sons and told them: "It's all because of the turkey! When they saw that they could take my turkey, we lost everything."
I retell that story today because it's helpful in understanding how and why we failed to contain the egregious behavior of both Donald Trump and Vladimir Putin.
They each started by - metaphorically speaking - stealing a turkey. And when we didn't respond, they kept ratcheting up their wretched behavior to the point where Trump thinks he could shoot someone on Fifth Avenue and Putin thinks he could poison a wayward spy in London, and get away with it.
Trump's turkey was his tax returns. During the campaign he promised to release them after the IRS finished auditing him. Then, after he was elected, Trump said, sorry, not going to release them ever. And nothing happened. Trump, I am reliably told, has actually said to people close to him, "Can you believe I got away with that?"
Once Trump saw that he could get away with not disclosing his tax returns, he knew he could get away with anything. He knew that once he compromised the Republican Party, even its evangelical wing, into giving him a pass on his taxes, they'd roll over for anything - sex with porn stars, endless lying, trashing the FBI, coddling Putin.
Any Bedouin chief who watched the steady acceleration in the breadth and pace of Trump's lying would tell you: Get me Trump's tax returns.
Putin's turkey was even more serious. It was the shooting down of that Malaysian civilian airliner, Flight MH17, over Ukraine on July 17, 2014, killing all 298 people onboard.
A Dutch-led international investigation - relying on, among other things, 150,000 intercepted phone calls - found that Putin's proxies in eastern Ukraine had requested that Russia send them an SA-11 surface-to-air missile launcher. And it was trucked over the Russian border into Ukraine, where it shot down that Malaysian airliner (probably mistaking it for a Ukrainian military plane) and then was trucked back to Russia hours later.
Putin's military was up to its neck in this. Putin did not push the button on that missile, but he created the conditions for it to shoot down that plane - and he walked away from it as if the plane were brought down by lightning, making up one implausible story after another. He got slapped on the wrist with a few sanctions, but his complicity faded away into a mist of baldfaced lies.
Putin surely also said to himself, "Can you believe I got away with that? Why not poison a former Russian spy in London with a banned military nerve agent or perpetrate genocide in Syria? Who's going to stop me?"
Trump and Putin are cut from the same cloth. Their strategy is: keep pushing, keep grabbing, keep lying, keep denying, no matter how implausible the denials - and never apologize. Because when you lie on an industrial scale, it overwhelms everyone else. Normal people just don't behave that way, and the sheer shamelessness eventually exhausts them.
The lesson that the Bedouin chief was trying to teach his sons is that he could live his life without that turkey - but he couldn't live his life with what the stealing of his turkey with impunity implied: that when people keep eroding the norms of society, stealing - turkeys or the truth - eventually becomes the norm.
That steady erosion of norms is what Trump is doing to America and Putin is doing to the world. And if we let them get away with it, your kids won't just grow up in a different America, they'll grow up in a different world.
The New York Times