I am asking please stop this. I am Tony's wife and I would really appreciate it if you all would just let him rest. He has children that will one day ask questions and see these things, make it a peaceful story for them, it will be hard enough for them to handle without your comments. If you did not know Tony and you were not there, just stay out of it. My babies (3 and 4 years old) have lost their father, I, at 24, have lost my husband of 5 years, he was also a son, grandson, nephew, and friend to many. He was an amazing father, husband, and best friend... leave him be. I miss and love you Tony Rudd!!! Rest In Peace baby!