Ordinary guy: There’s a reason your user name is not extraordinary guy, good guy, or even pretty good guy. Are you saying that “it’s no wonder this woman is single” simply because she has crushes on guys? Infatuation is a normal and necessary human response, without which, dating would be pointless and pretty unexciting (or ordinary, since you seem that is a term near and dear to your heart.) If you’re so confident in yourself that you never have butterflies in your stomach when you like a woman – because you’re just SO sure that everyone woman will like you back – I’d be willing to bet you will wind up extremely unliked by women for the majority of your life. Maybe you have a girlfriend, maybe you’re even married, but if you demoralize your girlfriend or wife the way you just demoralized this candid and honest woman who shares her personal feelings and experiences for the benefit of others – I guarantee your relationship is a ticking time bomb. Please remember that I said this each time you look into you surly, miserable existence in the future.