Wow! I am shocked at the lack of humor possessed by these commentors. I thought the article was a tongue and cheek poke at the truth of women. I fell in love with my husband because he actually called when he said he would, tells me I look smokin hot when I ask if I look ok in this outfit and laughes with me when he proves he's right and I was thinking of something else (because I wasn't wrong, just confused). I am an independent strong woman with her own career, a feminist one could say, and I am not fooled into thinking that because I am I can't be emotional, hopeful and complicated. I applaud the writer and the Times Free Press for putting an article out for men about understanding women instead of another one on what women should do to hook a guy. Maybe some of the men out there will learn something about how to hook a hottie.