@mrredskin - FYI, it doesn't cost anything (monetarily) to "attempt" to have a third child or a second child or even a first child. Fees are incurred only after the fourth. Also, how do you know that this was her "third attempt" at a child. I betcha she's "attempted" more than 3x to have a child but her success rate has only resulted in 3 pregnancies. Obviously I'm being very sarcastic. Your judgemental, ignorant comment along with many others (dbcoop & joepulitzer, who btw isn't any prize) is really disgusting and sad.