The word cotillion may call to mind images of teacups, gloves and old-fashioned customs, but the need for good etiquette is anything but a thing of the past, says Dawn Jumper. An etiquette consultant, she said the No. 1 etiquette concern today has to do with cellphones.
She is leading the 2014 Cotillion Club for middle schoolers at Signal Mountain Golf and Country Club starting Sunday, March 16.
Jumper said she was recently looking at a study that said middle school students spend as much as eight hours a day connected to an electronic device, making this group more in need than ever before for a tutorial in the do’s and don’ts of cellphone and Internet etiquette. This is therefore a topic covered extensively in Cotillion Club, she added.
“My goal is that instruction is information students can use 24/7 that will make them more confident and comfortable as they navigate their everyday lives,” said Jumper, who leads an annual Cotillion Club each spring at SMGCC.
The upcoming five-week class will be held Sunday afternoons from 2-3:30 p.m. and is designed for middle schoolers from sixth to eighth grades. Topics include social etiquette, table manners and even social dance, such as the Electric Slide and the Shag.
“I really work hard to make the class enjoyable and a positive experience for the students,” Jumper said.
Since students from several area schools typically attend the class, she said it is a good opportunity for students to practice their skills, since they are making new friends in class.
Students need only bring a smile and a positive attitude, she said.
“Every student who comes kind of grudgingly understands why we’re doing it and ends up having fun,” said Jumper. “I try to create a comfortable and enjoyable atmosphere.”
High school students who have been through her program in the past serve as her assistants during class.
“It’s a great chance for the younger students to have some positive role models,” she said.
Jumper sends emails home to parents after each class to let them know what was covered and a few ways students can continue to practice their skills at home. Parents are also invited to attend the final session, during which time students will share their newfound dance skills and enjoy a dessert bar with their parents while learning buffet etiquette.
“I believe we’re all impressed with a young person who knows how to introduce himself, make polite conversation and have confidence socially,” Jumper said, adding that before college is a great time to learn these skills. “Young people have a great opportunity to set themselves apart just by being socially confident.”
The cost of the class is $185, and the deadline to register is March 7. Contact Dawn Jumper at djumper512@gmail.com to register.