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Millennial Money: Financial advice that rarely fits all

FILE - In this June 15, 2018 photo, twenty dollar bills are counted in North Andover, Mass. Black-and-white financial advice ignores the nuances of each person's individual situation, and that can leave many feeling like they're failing, or missing out on hot opportunities that aren't actually appropriate for them. (AP Photo/Elise Amendola, File)
FILE - In this June 15, 2018 photo, twenty dollar bills are counted in North Andover, Mass. Black-and-white financial advice ignores the nuances of each person's individual situation, and that can leave many feeling like they're failing, or missing out on hot opportunities that aren't actually appropriate for them. (AP Photo/Elise Amendola, File) FILE - In this June 15, 2018 photo, twenty dollar bills are counted in North Andover, Mass. Black-and-white financial advice ignores the nuances of each person's individual situation, and that can leave many feeling like they're failing, or missing out on hot opportunities that aren't actually appropriate for them. (AP Photo/Elise Amendola, File)

When I hear financial tips that are unrealistic or shame-inducing, I cringe. Any advice that makes complicated money moves seem like an easy path to profit is downright dangerous.

Questionable guidance is all around, oversimplifying important decisions or claiming a one-size-fits-all approach will work. Amid the black-and-white world of advice-giving, there’s a lot of gray. Don’t ignore your unique needs and circumstances when plotting out your finances.

LACK OF WEALTH DOESN’T MEAN YOU LACK DISCIPLINE

There’s a subset of social media dedicated to what I call “hustle worship.” These posts will have you believe that if only you’d work harder, wake up earlier and eat the exact same breakfast as Elon Musk does, you’d be a billionaire.

This advice glosses over larger issues that prevent millions of hardworking, disciplined people from attaining financial security – like crushing student loan debt, job uncertainty and budget-busting child care costs. According to NerdWallet’s 2019 American Household Credit Card Debt study, the average U.S. household with student loan debt owes $46,459. Average annual U.S. child care costs ranged from $18,442 to $26,102 in 2019 for two children in full-time care in a child care center, according to a report by Child Care Aware of America.