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Courter: Things I wish my kids would ask me

Barry Courter
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Editor’s note:

Barry Courter has a 25-year-old son who is a college graduate and a 21-year-old daughter who is a junior in college.

Q: Dad, what’s the difference between being trusting and expecting the best from people and being a doormat? I’m thinking specifically about people trying to sell me something.

A: Experience, I suppose. Being a good listener, reading the fine print and asking a lot of questions also helps. Before signing a contract or long-term agreement, you especially should do the research yourself to make sure what is being sold to you is what you are actually getting.