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Saturday, November 14, 2026Nov 14

Retirement and grandkids: Tired but happy

Photo by Karen Nazor Hill
Photo by Karen Nazor Hill
photo Karen Nazor-Hill

If you ask me what retirement is like, I’ll tell you that I’m more exhausted now than I ever was working a full-time job.

The reason? Children. They are wearing me out.

A big part of my decision to take early retirement last April as a reporter at the Times Free Press was to help out with my three grandchildren: Tilleigh, 9, Evie, 6, and William, 3. It cost a small fortune to send the kids to summer camps last year, so I knew that retiring would free me up to babysit while their mommy, my daughter, Kacee, was at work.

Good heavens, Lord, I had forgotten what it’s like to take care of three kids day after day. Having raised four children, I thought it would be a breeze. Wrong.

Every day by 3 p.m., I double as a zombie. My hair sticks out everywhere; I’m bug-eyed; I walk around in a daze. Well, maybe I’m exaggerating somewhat, but it’s definitely how I feel. I blame it on being 63 years old, which I think is a legitimate claim.