DEAR ABBY: I married my husband 40 years ago. A few years later, he was diagnosed with diabetes. He refused to take care of himself and ended up with double leg amputations 13 years ago. He had prosthetics but wouldn’t use them. I stood by him and was his advocate, but he blamed me!
He has major health issues now, but I’m not too concerned. According to him, it’s “none of my business.” Family doesn’t care because he doesn’t care. My daughter blames me, but she doesn’t bother to have much contact with her father.
I have had enough of trying to help a man who doesn’t want help. This is a loveless marriage and has been for years. He’s also addicted to computer porn. When his computer broke, he got mad at me because I would not let him use mine.
I would rather be out of the house than here with a husband who doesn’t care if I’m around or not. Please advise me what I can do. – REACHED THE LIMIT
DEAR REACHED: What you can do depends upon what you want to do.