DEAR ABBY: My husband passed away four months ago. I miss him terribly, but I’m ready to move on. I want to begin dating, but I don’t know how to go about it. Some may say it’s too soon, but I couldn’t care less what people think.
I have my eye on several men I think may be interested, but they’re not paying much attention to me. I think they’re hesitating because they know how recently my husband died and they think it’s too soon. How can I let them know I’m ready without coming on too strong?
Also, how can I go about meeting new men? I go places and see lots of men who are attractive, but I haven’t got the nerve to approach them. Some of them may be married, and I don’t want to wreck anyone’s marriage. I’m 65, so it isn’t easy to meet someone in my age group.
I am not looking for a husband, just a friend and companion. I have everything I need except someone to love and care for me. Online dating isn’t an option for me. Can you please give me some of your excellent advice? — VERY LONELY WIDOW
DEAR VERY LONELY: Please accept my condolences for the loss of your husband. You have now become a member of a club that nobody wants to join.