A few weeks ago, I found myself standing in a room full of college students talking about relationships. Some were engaged. Some were dating someone seriously. A few were still figuring out what they wanted.
At one point, someone raised their hand and asked a question that made the whole room quiet. “How do you know when to talk about marriage in a relationship?”
It’s a question many young adults wrestle with today. And in truth, it’s not really about timing. It’s about clarity.
Instead of answering the question directly, I asked them a different one.
Why do you want to get married in the first place?