Gina Bever (and oh do I hope that's really your real name, because if its not, its the worst attempt at a fake girly name for a columnist I've ever seen as its only one step away from a really really bad pun), please pick up a book on feminism, or at the very least on self awareness. And please, please, stop pretending that you have some authority on how women work while perpetuating the same time worn myths that men are justifiably petrified of. Women who use these myths really have no excuse. Men who buy into them don't either. Communication is a two way street, and strangely enough, that means both parties have a responsibility to clarify things like this like adults and not play games.
Just to clarify how I got here... I was linked to this article as an example of bad female writing about women. I came and read it to judge for myself, and I have to say, I agree. There are good ways to write this topic, this ain't it.