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Thursday, November 12, 2026Nov 12

Pastor Prose: Curmudgeon Thanksgiving

Adam Whitescarver
Adam Whitescarver

As a kid, my friends and I used to joke about grumpy old men. There was even a movie with the same title that came out that seemed to justify our sentiments. 

These days, those jokes hit closer to home. 

Now that I’m in my mid-forties, I am self-diagnosed with what I call “Early-Onset Curmudgeoness.” It’s completely made up but seems to get at what I feel I have been experiencing.

I feel a creeping tendency to grump about things and become a curmudgeon well before my time. And the grumping can be about anything, depending especially on how much sleep I’ve gotten.  

I’m not sure there’s a cure for it. Like the grumpy old men I saw when I was a kid, I am finding it can be hard to deal with all the constant change, most of which does not seem for the better. What’s annoying is that I am called to adapt to things I don’t necessarily want to adapt to.