“I’m fine.”
If you’ve ever heard these words, you know they really mean “I’m about as far from fine as humanly possible. And you better ask me why I’m not fine, or else.”
Into every relationship, a little conflict must fall. It doesn’t matter how much of a fairy tale your relationship is, there is going to be conflict. It’s just part of being human.
The question is all about how you deal with it. With dignity and respect? Or like a UFC fighters with an entire arena and TV audience cheering you on? (In case you’re wondering, Option 2 is not the best answer.)
Now, I’m not saying you and your partner have to sit down and discuss the issue at hand over a cup of tea. If that works for you, more power to you.