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Friday, October 30, 2026Oct 30

Jeanne Phillips


Dear Abby: My minister husband cares more for others than me. How do I tell my kids I’ve had enough?

DEAR ABBY: I have been married to the same man for 20 years. He likes having people around all the time and, because he is a minister, we often can't avoid it. I have tried to accommodate his friends and hangers-on, but lately it's becoming unbearable. He will say "yes" to people who have been evicted, and I find myself sharing living quarters with perfect strangers or church members without prior notice.

Jeanne Phillips