I wish someone would stampede in, overturn your tables and drive the homophobic madness from your pulpit. Exorcise you.
Do you not see the damage you're doing?
Can you not hear the broken hearts falling to the floor all around you?
What you're doing is not Christian. It never will be. Packs of wolves are more compassionate than this.
"The unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God," reads Corinthians, which then provides a list of the unrighteous: the immoral, idolaters, adulterers.
With that very verse, (while ignoring thousands of others that instruct you quite differently) you crushed the heart of a family that has been part of your church for generations.