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Cook: The underlying peace of the heart

photo David Cook

Some years ago Dr. Herb Barks, the longtime Baylor School headmaster, had just been diagnosed with prostate cancer. His wife, Carol, also was sick – acute lymphoblastic leukemia – and about to begin chemotherapy. Doctors weren’t sure she would live to see the end of her treatments.

It was a dizzying, terrifying time. Barks needed help, advice, something to hold onto.

He called Kittisaro, a former student who left a Rhodes Scholarship to become a Buddhist monk. At the time, Kittisaro was in Africa, having just finished a yearlong silent retreat.

“Kittisaro,” Barks began, “I’ve got prostate cancer. Carol has acute lymphoblastic leukemia and isn’t expected to live.”

A long pause.