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First Things First: 7 expert tips to handle difficult school drop-offs

Mitchell Qualls / Contributed Photo
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Day one of school came, and we were ready to rock. Excited to see friends, make new friends and launch into a new adventure. But then we got to the front door, and our kindergartner lost it. She didn’t want to go, and the tears flowed. We made it through days one, two and three, and then we were a week in. As we figured out routines for a successful school morning drop-off, each day was better than the one before.

Then, quarantines hit, and school closed for a time. We had to start the process all over again. School drop-off can be difficult for many kids (my 5-year-old despises it). It becomes more challenging when you have to alter routines due to things out of your control, like a pandemic.

It’s important to recognize and validate your children’s feelings. They may be anxious about a new place, new people or the ever-changing schedule. These tips from experts can help you navigate school drop-off like a pro:

1. Talk about what’s going to happen.

Know your school’s drop-off policy and where your child will go. Create a morning routine that works for your family. Also, let your child know when you’ll be back to pick them up. The more comfortable they are with the daily routine, the more likely they’ll be able to accept and even look forward to the morning drop-off.