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First Things First: 5 tips and 7 questions for better family communication

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The simple act of communicating can be frustrating, but I want to encourage you. I’ve yet to meet a family whose communication was all it could be. Quality and quantity are the general goals, but it’s not easy. We’re all in this together!

According to the Journal of Marriage and Family Review, the six key relationship habits are appreciation/affection, commitment, positive communication, time together, strong coping skills and spiritual well-being. Today, let’s look at the third one: positive communication. We’ll explore what it means for you if you’re a spouse or parent.

(READ MORE: Week 1: Show appreciation, affection through words and deeds)

(READ MORE: Week 2: How to honor your commitment to family)

What should the goal of communication be, both as a spouse and as a family? The purpose of family communication is to connect by deepening your understanding of each other. You’re seeking insights that move your relationship forward. You’re trying to understand each other’s thoughts and feelings so you can love better. It might be to look for ideas and solutions for new or ongoing problems and issues.