Ancient proverbs can be helpful in adjusting our language and behavior in ways that can benefit every generation. They have become ancient because they work.
One example: “A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger” (Proverbs 15:1). It means calm, patient and kind words can de-escalate conflict, while harsh, angry responses provoke further rage. Try it sometime when you are in an argument with someone. Display humility, or say “I can see how you feel that way, but may I share my view?”
The language we use to communicate with one another can heal or wound, producing positive or negative results.
The latest of many examples is language used by President Trump, members of his administration, Minnesota Gov. Tim Walz and Minneapolis Mayor Jacob Frey over their differing views on ICE agents seeking to arrest violent criminals.
President Trump has called Walz “Whacked Out” and “Grossly Incompetent.” Asked if he would call the governor, Trump said, “Why would I call him? … The guy doesn’t have a clue. He’s a mess.”