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National Opinion: Parents, be grateful for, ‘I can do it myself’

Letting a child play with their dog outside unattended could, in some places. result in parents facing a neglect charge. Some states have passed laws declaring it's OK for parents to give their children some forms of reasonable independence.  (AP File Photo/Frank Augstein)
Letting a child play with their dog outside unattended could, in some places. result in parents facing a neglect charge. Some states have passed laws declaring it's OK for parents to give their children some forms of reasonable independence. (AP File Photo/Frank Augstein) Letting a child play with their dog outside unattended could, in some places. result in parents facing a neglect charge. Some states have passed laws declaring it's OK for parents to give their children some forms of reasonable independence. (AP File Photo/Frank Augstein)

Parenting is a relatively novel term for what humans have done since the dawn of humanity — keep their progeny alive. These days, it comes with a long list of confusing rules that often conflict with each other.

Let kids have independence, experts say. Put them on their bikes, strap on a helmet and send them out into the neighborhood. Or to school. By themselves.

On the other hand, in some places, giving a child the ability to move freely can still land a parent in court, or even on a child abuse and neglect registry.

Is it any wonder today’s parents are anxious? And that their anxiety spreads to their children?

A recent story out of Virginia reported by Reason tells of Karyann Parkinson, a Virginia mother who was convicted in August of contributing to the delinquency of a minor after letting her 5-year-old son walk about half a mile alone in their gated community. After a security guard noticed him, the boy was brought home, police and child protective services showed up, and the system threw the book at Parkinson.