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Photo by Jason Mendez/Invision/The Associated Press / Anderson Cooper, shown here in this Dec. 8, 2019, file photo, announced the birth of his son, Wyatt, on April 30, 2020t. His son was born via a surrogate.

A couple of weeks ago, a woman had a baby. Childbirth, of course, happens tens of thousands of times a day in the United States, but this baby was a product.

A couple paid a doctor and an agency to secure the child. The mom's relationship with the child is governed not by biology, but by contract, one with clauses and exceptions and conditions. A man who made no genetic contribution is being called the child's other "father," along with Anderson Cooper, a major media celebrity, which is why this baby's birth made national headlines.

Cooper is a homosexual man. He and his now-ex partner hired a woman to be a surrogate, a practice increasingly common in the U.S. The headlines announcing the couple's acquisition were universally fawning, as if this story carried none of the extraordinary details listed above at all: "Anderson Cooper talks first weekend as new Dad;" "Anderson Cooper announces birth of his son; urges people to hold on to 'moments of joy.'"

None of these articles, in fact not a single one that I could find in any major publication anywhere, even hinted that there might be any ethical concerns with Cooper's purchase. In fact, when author Joyce Carol Oates mentioned on Twitter — after explicitly congratulating Cooper, by the way — that she found it curious the news coverage never mentioned Cooper's hired surrogate at all, she was excoriated.

The speed at which our culture is able to normalize a behavior thought just yesterday to be somewhere between questionable to unthinkable is stunning. To not mention any shred of ethical hesitancy around the decision to purchase procreation, particularly by a couple who chose an intentionally sterile union in the first place, is one thing.

To gush over the doting dads as if the way this whole thing happened is quite unremarkable? Well, that's something else entirely. After all, culture is often most powerful in our lives where it makes the least amount of commotion. When something is no longer considered debatable, and is instead assumed, it's been normalized.

This story demonstrates that commercial surrogacy, including cases in which the child is intentionally deprived of its mother, is now fully normal.

We've repeatedly pointed out the many ethical problems with surrogacy on BreakPoint. Here, in this story, we have a new chapter of this: Two men who choose a sexual relationship that doesn't include a uterus still consider themselves entitled to the products of a uterus. And so, they hire a uterus, not really the whole woman.

We see the world through the stories we tell ourselves, and each reporter who told this story tacitly agreed that Cooper and his partner were the good guys. As Joyce Carol Oates quickly discovered when she asked why the baby's mom should be left unnamed, the protagonist role was already taken, and it would be awkward to cast the hired help as the antagonist. So, they just didn't mention her at all. Perhaps the strangest part of the growing cultural acceptance is how surrogacy is so often championed by the Progressive Left, especially as it has increasingly served the cause of same-sex marriage. Yet, it violates almost every central tenet of the worldview they claim.

After all, if anything is "capitalism run amok," it's commercial surrogacy. Is there a more disgusting display of greed than the rich paying the poor for their babies? And, surrogacy exploits the vulnerable. It robs women of their bodily autonomy, especially when contract clauses commit them to reproductive decisions, including abortion.

Surrogacy is also the final chapter of a culture that prioritizes adult happiness over children's rights, in this case by offering a service only the very wealthy can afford. Surrogacy denies that children have rights to their mother and father, and that a mother has a right to her own child. Like transgenderism, surrogacy denies biological realities, in this case the miraculous bonds, both physical and emotional, that connects mothers with their children. Surrogacy serves money, and makes winners and losers. The losers are always women and children. The winners are always those with big bank accounts.

If there were a segment of culture that should rebuke surrogacy but often doesn't, it would be the Progressive Left, which fancies itself the champion of the vulnerable, the poor, and of women. Some do, in particular feminists who see the potential for exploitation.

If there were another segment of culture that should rebuke surrogacy but often doesn't, even more so in fact, it would be Christians. Some do, but too many don't, mostly because their worldview analysis stops at what's normal, rather than what's right.

From BreakPoint, May 8, 2020; reprinted by permission of the Colson Center, www. breakpoint.org.

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